When You’re Spiritually Carrying the Marriage, Your Heart Pays the Price.

You didn’t plan to feel this way.

You prayed for a husband who would spiritually lead.
You stayed faithful.
You kept hoping.

But somewhere along the way:

• You became the spiritual temperature-setter in the home

• You stopped sharing what you really feel because it felt unsafe or pointless

• You began carrying disappointment, grief, and resentment while still trying to be “a good Christian wife”

You don’t want to be bitter.
You don’t want to shut down.
But you also can’t keep pretending your heart is fine.

This isn’t rebellion.
It’s unresolved pain.

You are not failing spiritually.

You are responding normally to being spiritually and emotionally over-extended.

Most Christian advice focuses on behavior:

• “Just submit.”

• “Just wait on God.”

• “Just don’t resent.”

But resentment doesn’t disappear through willpower.
It dissolves when the heart is renewed.

That’s what this experience is designed to do.

Many women are going through this right now. I was one of them.

• It feels like carrying the burden alone to raise children to be strong in their faith.
• Some Christian women suggest to "make room" for husbands to lead by playing your own faith smaller.
• You love your husband, but no matter what you say, he doesn't seem interested in being the spiritual leader in the home. 

What started out as a cry to God and complaint about my marriage turned into something I didn't expect.

• God radically changed my heart and perspective about my marriage without my husband changing.
• It was after my own healing and renewal that I began to see him in a new way and then....
• He began to change. He became more sensitive towards me, listened more, and a spiritual passion grew within him.

God also taught me some key truths that apply to many other marriages like mine.

That's why I've created Renew the Heart for those in a spiritually imbalanced marriage. In this 3-lesson e-course, I'm going to share how God can renew your marriage as He did in mine.

Renew the Heart is a guided experience that helps you:

1. Identify where resentment formed and why
2. Release the spiritual and emotional weight you were never meant to carry alone
3. Re-anchor your identity in God instead of your role
4. Experience peace and clarity before anything in your marriage changes

This is not marriage counseling. This is not husband-fixing. This is heart renewal so you can live, pray, and lead from wholeness instead of pressure.

Renew The Heart is for you if:

• You love God and take your faith seriously
• You feel resentment but don’t want to become hardened
• You’re ready to take responsibility for your inner life
• You want peace, not performance
• You want to call your husband into his own destiny without controlling him.
• You're tired of the lame advice to play it small to make room for your husband to lead.

Renew The Heart is not for you if:

• You’re looking to fix or control your husband
• You want quick behavior change without inner work
• You believe spiritual growth should require no investment.
• You just want to bash your husband's character.
• You do not want to let go of victimhood mindsets.

Meet Diana Bigham

A Marriage and Family Therapist for 19 years Inner Healing Prayer Minister for 13 years
Wife for 22 years & Mom of 2

Family is our greatest ministry, but when you're not on the same page as your spouse spiritually, it may feel like an uphill battle.

Pain is real and people need real solutions. In this e-course, I share my personal experience with this struggle and the victories along the way.

You'll also hear from my husband on what it was like from his perspective.