You Were Never Meant to Prove Yourself to God

If Obedience Feels Heavy, There’s a Better Way to Live Your Faith

 

Unveiling Heirs offers guidance for Christians hungry for more than religious performance. We help you reconnect with your God-given design, hear God for yourself, and grow in the life Jesus actually taught.

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Why Faith Can Feel Heavy

Faith often feels heavy when it’s carried through effort instead of relationship.

Many believers learn to follow God through:

  • doing the right things

  • avoiding the wrong ones

  • staying faithful

  • being responsible

  • not wanting to disappoint Him

Over time, obedience becomes something to manage instead of something that flows.

You may feel like you’re growing until you hit the same ceiling again.
You pray. You try harder. You recommit.
And the weight returns.

That heaviness is not a failure of faith.
It’s a sign that something deeper needs attention.

God does not lead His children through pressure.
He leads them through Presence.

What you’re feeling isn’t failure, it’s a sign that faith needs support to meet you where you are, not pressure you into performance.

Why Obedience Can Start to Feel So Heavy

Many Christians are taught to grow by trying harder.

You learn to stay faithful.
You learn to do the right things.
You learn to carry responsibility well.

Over time, faith can start to feel like something you manage instead of something you live.

You may experience progress...
and then hit the same ceiling again.

So you recommit.
You push through.
You try to be more disciplined.

And the weight returns.

That heaviness isn’t a sign that you’re failing God.
It’s often a sign that faith has slowly shifted into performance.

What Changes When Faith Stops Being Driven by Pressure

When pressure is removed, growth begins to look different.

Not because life gets easier,
but because you’re no longer trying to earn what God has already given.

People begin to:

  • grow from identity instead of effort

  • hear God for themselves with more clarity and confidence

  • respond to God without fear of getting it wrong

  • move forward without cycling through burnout and recommitment

Faith becomes something you live,
not something you constantly manage.

This is how growth was always meant to work.

Guidance That Supports Real Growth

Unveiling Heirs exists to support growth that is steady, Spirit-led, and grounded in everyday life.

This isn’t about quick fixes or trying harder.
It’s about learning to grow from the inside out.

Through Unveiling Heirs, you’re supported as you:

  • reconnect with who God says you are

  • learn to hear His voice with clarity and confidence

  • grow beyond religious pressure into lived faith

  • practice obedience without fear or striving

Growth happens at a human pace.
With guidance.
With room to ask questions.
And with space to integrate what you’re learning into real life.

This is faith and growth that can actually be sustained.

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There isn’t one right place to start.
Different seasons call for different kinds of support.

Option 1

Renew The Heart

Guided Process

A self-paced course, with option for live group coaching, for women carrying resentment because they’re spiritually holding the marriage together.

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Option 2

Ascend Waitlist

A 12-Week Growth Experience

For women who are ready to stop holding everything together and begin living with clarity, strength, and peace.

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Option 3

The Journey

Ongoing Support

A space for women who want continued encouragement, reflection, and growth in their everyday walk with God.

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Option 4

1:1 Guidance

Private Support

For women & men seeking personalized guidance for a specific season or discernment need.

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There is no benefit to rushing what is meant to be built.

You don’t need to choose perfectly, you just need to begin.

Start Here:

Renew the Heart is a self-paced course, with option for live group coaching, for women carrying resentment because they’re spiritually holding the marriage together.

In three short sessions, you’ll understand what’s happening in your heart, release the weight you’ve been carrying, and begin living with more peace without waiting for anyone else to change.

$47 • Lifetime access

Start with Renew The Heart

Seasonal Gatherings for Growth

A focused, short-term gathering for deeper personal growth and connection.

Identity Camp

A guided gathering for Christians ready to live from who God says they are.

Identity Camp is a focused gathering for believers who want to move beyond religious effort and grow from a clearer understanding of their identity in Christ.

This time is designed to help you:

  • understand who you are apart from roles and expectations

  • learn practical ways to hear God for yourself

  • release patterns rooted in pressure and performance

  • practice living with clarity, trust, and authority

If you sense there is more to life with God and want space to grow without pressure, join us on February 28th.

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Walking With Others as They Learn to Live Free

Diana Bigham walks with Christians who love the Lord deeply but feel worn down by pressure, confusion, or patterns that don’t seem to change.

For nearly two decades, she has supported individuals and families who sense there is more to faith than striving, yet haven’t been shown how to live it without the heaviness.

Her work focuses on helping people understand who they are, learn to hear God for themselves, and grow in a way that is steady, practical, and rooted in trust in God rather than performance.

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WHAT HAPPENS WHEN FOUNDATIONS ARE RESTORED

Individuals don’t just feel better...they live differently.

Lara, Pioneer Parent

“Wow! Every bit of Diana's information was very helpful! In just three days, my oldest is voicing her emotions to me and we're talking about how we handle them. I've learned so much.”

Corinna, The Journey

“I can now see certain people who give me a hard time and it doesn’t wreck my day or change anything for me.”

Mara, Ascend

“I've had an increase in confidence and hearing God for myself and prophetically for others.”

Erika, Renew The Heart

“My heart has softened towards myself, my husband and others. I am excited to study the Bible and pray again. My marriage and home has more peace with these practical tips and confirmation God has given me through this course.”

Sarah, 1:1 Coaching

“Diana was very helpful and thorough! She helped my son get in a better routine and actually naps again! Also, she helped equipped me with the tools to deal with his emotions and also my own. She is amazing!”

Common Questions, Answered Simply.

You’re Not Behind

If you’re here, something in you is already responding.

You don’t need to catch up.
You don’t need to prove anything.
You don’t need to choose perfectly.

Growth happens step by step with guidance, patience, and trust.

The invitation is simply to begin where you are.

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